I wanted to write a letter to the most important and powerful being walking the earth, and that is the WOMAN. I wanted to write a letter to women to let them know I respect and recognize their power, but I don’t think that women recognize their power. I know that most women will think that I don’t know what in the hell that I am talking about, but this is just my adult observation. I watch so many amazing women let other human beings stunt their growth in this life, and let’s not forget EMOTION. People and emotions have gotten in the way for far too long and it bothers me that it continues. Stop sacrificing your life for others, and that goes for family and friends. There is a balance that can be established for yourself and others. YOU are important and should not include others feelings before your own all the time. Your children get older and leave and then you’re trying to discover yourself at a late age. That is a ridiculous way to handle your life and the years that has passed can’t be retrieved. Make time for yourself. There is a reason the double standard, and marriage exist. The sad part is most women have not fought hard enough to change this.
Double standard is a rule or principle that is unfairly applied in different ways to different people or groups. Women have suffered from this before I was born. Men can have sex with as many people as they choose and be labeled as a “pimp”, “player”, “suave”, and so on. Men can date an older woman and not be called a gold digger. If a man is without child as an adult it’s normal, but if a woman doesn’t have a child something is greatly wrong. A man who speaks his mind is showcases leadership skills, but a woman is bossy and arrogant. Now the double standard is applied to men as well but they don’t hold us back from being leaders or not judged as much as the woman. Why are these rules in place and how have the stayed so damn relevant in life? Women let the double standard stop them from attempting to be who they are and do as they please. Women live by these rules and must conform to fit in for the most part. Do you know that all these DUMB ASS rules can be broken, they are not against the law? Not all women are meant to be mothers, some women genuinely like older men, and speaking your mind as a woman is A OK. Women, you do realize this bullshit was created to keep you in check without physical force. You do realize that these rules keep you enslaved to men, along with physical dominance. There is a reason that there are many more derogatory names for women than men. Who do you think made all this bullshit up, MEN made all this shit up and you followed. THINK AND DO AS YOU PLEASE!!
I think marriage is amazing, but it was not intended for a special bond and for love. The cave man mentality about marriage will forever be around, and that is to enslave the woman and show ownership. This mentality is relevant but not as dominant as it was in the past. I honestly think the world would be a better place if women were in charge but the double standard has ruined that in many cases. Women are more caring, compassionate, understanding, and open-minded. I honestly have said “that a woman running the world now would be a scary place”. I say that because I know that they have not recognized their power and how all revolves around them. Women are the world’s biggest consumer, which helps push the economy. Men buy cars to look good for women, Cheerleaders are at the games for men, men do all they do for women’s attention. Men have no purpose without women in the world, but that might not be as true for men. It’s time to recognize and move forward while giving all the MIDDLE FINGER. Men are afraid of you. Look at the history. Women were last to get voting rights in America for a reason. Be amazing and inspire as some of you are now but the movement can be greater.
Society, per the dictionary is “the aggregate of people living together in a more or less ordered community”. My definition of “society” is much different than the dictionary. Society in my opinion, is most people that live in a safe little bubble that base their actions on what others think. I would first like to say FUCK society and all that you stand for. I reject you and your ignorance to life and I wish you would lose your idealistic thoughts. I have friends and family that are part of society and there is a reason information from me to them is scarce. Society will make you think that their way of life is the way all should live life. Their way of living is the “perfect” way of living. There is no such thing as “perfect”, just stop please with this word. I didn’t want to go to college, get a “good job”, take a vacation once a year, retire at 65 in my house with the white picket fence. That is the most boring shit I have ever heard in my life. That degree you get does not guarantee a job and puts you in debt up to your head. The “good job” that you get from the degree that you have earned makes pennies compared to the owner of the company. I could not imagine only taking a vacation once a year with the family. Who in the hell wants to work until they are 65 and then retire with bullshit money to live on until you die in less than 20 years. If you don’t buy the house cash then it doesn’t belong to you, IT BELONGS TO THE BANK! You are not a home owner until the documents of ownership are in your possession. You then work until your 65 to pay off a house that you won’t pay off until you die.
The judgement that comes from society for not following the formula listed is amazing to me. Sooo, say I buy a house, then what? Does this make me smarter or show that I am financially stable? The problem is that this is what we think we should be going after in life. Houses are great but they are not for everyone. You then pay a down payment on a house and once the deal is closed you are then congratulated as a “home owner”. So, this means you can do as you please with the house you “OWN”? No, you can’t. If you miss a payment or two, the actual owners of the house (the bank) come and tell you that you must leave their property. So, you are actually a deep in debt “renter”. This “American dream” is real and most follow those guidelines of what the “Dream” entails for most middle-class Americans. Well fuck your middle class and what your “dream” entails. I am retiring when I feel like it, I don’t need a dumb ass degree to be educated, I don’t want your boring ass desk job or labor job, and keep your white picket fence and your house with the yard. My dream doesn’t necessarily consist of that sequence and I love the route I am taking. My dream is unique and gives me the ability to use my brain to grow and help others in this world. My dream is happiness from giving and watching others enjoy the gift I have given them. I will travel as much as I damn well please until I don’t feel like it anymore. Why are there so many people that work for organizations for years and the outcome is never ownership? So, you are fine with that one position? Where is the ambition, and how in the hell do you get that comfortable? Let’s promote entrepreneurship and total ownership. Leave something behind for others to use many years down the line, because that job you had within that organization for over 50 years, can’t be passed on to your children or even grandchildren.
So, to society I would like to say FUCK YOU and your safe zone and your “Perfect Life”. The shit that is the “dream” does not work for me in my life. There is no such thing as perfection, because of the great variety of minds in this world. Let me live my way and you live yours without judgement. There is only my way not the right way and I will forever fight against “the right way”. Your opinions mean nothing to me, and fear of failure does not exist in my life. Thank you for being who you are and I pray one day you open your mind to all the great and different possibilities. Thank you and FUCK YOU again.