I wanted to write a letter to the most important and powerful being walking the earth, and that is the WOMAN. I wanted to write a letter to women to let them know I respect and recognize their power, but I don’t think that women recognize their power. I know that most women will think that I don’t know what in the hell that I am talking about, but this is just my adult observation. I watch so many amazing women let other human beings stunt their growth in this life, and let’s not forget EMOTION. People and emotions have gotten in the way for far too long and it bothers me that it continues. Stop sacrificing your life for others, and that goes for family and friends. There is a balance that can be established for yourself and others. YOU are important and should not include others feelings before your own all the time. Your children get older and leave and then you’re trying to discover yourself at a late age. That is a ridiculous way to handle your life and the years that has passed can’t be retrieved. Make time for yourself. There is a reason the double standard, and marriage exist. The sad part is most women have not fought hard enough to change this.
Double standard is a rule or principle that is unfairly applied in different ways to different people or groups. Women have suffered from this before I was born. Men can have sex with as many people as they choose and be labeled as a “pimp”, “player”, “suave”, and so on. Men can date an older woman and not be called a gold digger. If a man is without child as an adult it’s normal, but if a woman doesn’t have a child something is greatly wrong. A man who speaks his mind is showcases leadership skills, but a woman is bossy and arrogant. Now the double standard is applied to men as well but they don’t hold us back from being leaders or not judged as much as the woman. Why are these rules in place and how have the stayed so damn relevant in life? Women let the double standard stop them from attempting to be who they are and do as they please. Women live by these rules and must conform to fit in for the most part. Do you know that all these DUMB ASS rules can be broken, they are not against the law? Not all women are meant to be mothers, some women genuinely like older men, and speaking your mind as a woman is A OK. Women, you do realize this bullshit was created to keep you in check without physical force. You do realize that these rules keep you enslaved to men, along with physical dominance. There is a reason that there are many more derogatory names for women than men. Who do you think made all this bullshit up, MEN made all this shit up and you followed. THINK AND DO AS YOU PLEASE!!
I think marriage is amazing, but it was not intended for a special bond and for love. The cave man mentality about marriage will forever be around, and that is to enslave the woman and show ownership. This mentality is relevant but not as dominant as it was in the past. I honestly think the world would be a better place if women were in charge but the double standard has ruined that in many cases. Women are more caring, compassionate, understanding, and open-minded. I honestly have said “that a woman running the world now would be a scary place”. I say that because I know that they have not recognized their power and how all revolves around them. Women are the world’s biggest consumer, which helps push the economy. Men buy cars to look good for women, Cheerleaders are at the games for men, men do all they do for women’s attention. Men have no purpose without women in the world, but that might not be as true for men. It’s time to recognize and move forward while giving all the MIDDLE FINGER. Men are afraid of you. Look at the history. Women were last to get voting rights in America for a reason. Be amazing and inspire as some of you are now but the movement can be greater.