One thing that I have been told is that my delivery is too strong. The words I use aren’t caring and compassionate as I have been told before. Well guess what, I DON’T CARE. That is who I am and how I choose to be with certain people depending on the situation. I do understand when to be raw and uncut and when not to be. Things that are done by a person that are clearly not in that person’s best interest is upsetting to me. When I say that, I mean that you tell me what you really want but just won’t decide to go after it. I give it to you in the rough way so that you don’t have to continue to live roughly. I know when the sensitive and sweet talk needs to happen but there is a time for that and there is a time for the realness. If you talk with me and clearly let me know that you understand your circumstances, but just don’t want to change them, my delivery is unsympathetic. I can’t feel sorry for a person that plans a murder. I can’t feel sorry for a person that knows they are unhappy in a situation but refuse to leave it. I don’t care about your excuses or how rough the outcome will be. Change it or SHUT UP. It is that simple. When you overthink the obvious, life will not be kind to you.
You think life cares about your excuses? You think life will be kind and nice to you for being unhappy? The answer to both questions is HELL NO!! Life is here to beat the living hell out of you and put you in an early grave. All the unhealthy food is cheaper than the healthy food. Working out is inconvenient to your daily wants and needs. Leaving a bad relationship is hard and it will hurt the other person’s feelings. Life has no sympathy for the disobedient and it will make whatever circumstances worst if YOU don’t change them. If you are out of shape and refuse to workout, your health begins to diminish. If you stay in a bad relationship and refuse to leave it, there are a plenty of things that could potentially happen. When you do decide to leave, your mentality about the next relationship is not as open. This is your life, and I am not perfect but I have my life figured out. Let’s please be the best versions of ourselves. This is first for you and then for the people that are with and around you. If you enjoy being unhappy, then stop complaining about it. No one can for an opinion on your circumstances if they have no knowledge of them. You either are happy or you aren’t. There is no gray area in this life for happiness. It’s time to put things in perspective and realize time is not on your side. Make happiness a priority once you discover what makes you happy. Do you know what makes you happy?
Written By: Ronald Anthony Wilson