Reality

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    I would first like to start by saying I absolutely despise the word “reality” and what it represents for most. This word cripples so many people with growth and change in life. “This is reality not some dream!”, “Not in the REAL world”, and “Back to REALITY” are just some of the phrases that deter and halt most people from living their dream. Dreams can come true and they do come true for some. I have seen with my own eyes that dreams can become reality. It doesn’t happen for most but there is a reason for that. Negativity and obstacles in life should never stop you from pursuing your dream. One thing that you will have to do to obtain your dream and escape the negativity of “reality” is become selfish. Oh yeah SELFISH, and I mean totally invest in yourself and not let anyone make you feel bad for doing so. There is no way in hell you can be totally happy and give unto anyone else until you give unto yourself. This selfishness consists of totally discovering your likes, dislikes, wants, desires, and passions.
 
    You should apologize to your loved ones ahead of time for your absence in their lives. Tragic events are the only instances that overtake your selfish time and nothing else. No one will understand this and think you are being rude and inconsiderate for not including them in YOUR decision making. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! I have to laugh at that because people miss the key word in that last sentence and that word is “YOUR”. The word is written in CAPS for a reason people. How can a person know who they are if most decisions have influence? Parents, let go and let your parenting work. Friends, give them some time. Your shambled life will still be there when he or she is done. There will be no advice to a significant other because a relationship shouldn’t be in the picture until you are finished discovering yourself. I am sorry to let you know but you will be spending time alone with your own thoughts. This selfish part really never ends it just eases up over time. The best part about it easing up is you now get to create your reality in your life.
 
    It is time you pursue your dreams and passions. You should be going after your career or pursuing whatever it is you’ve discovered you have a passion for. You can now know what you want in a mate, and that’s physically and mentally. You can now pick your own religion, style of clothing, place you want to live and so on. Your reality will be amazing because all things you do and will be involved in will be what you want to do. Your happiness will be an inspiration to some and an irritant to some others. HAHAHAHAHAHA!! That laughter is for the irritated others. It is time to rule your world and your reality. Society and your friends and family has no say in your life. I have really invested in myself and I am loving who I am becoming and where my life is headed. I am writing post for a blog that is mine and I don’t get paid for it. This is not the Ron that others have experienced but it’s the “Ron” that “Ron” has discovered. This is amazing because I have never been happier. Create your reality and live it proudly.
 
Written by: Ronald Anthony Wilson